7 mistakes of highly ineffective boyfriend
These mistakes can drive your girl friend
nuts
1. Ignore your gf.
This is the most common mistake committed and girls have high power sensors to detect when you try to avoid them in any way. This can be when you pretend that you are listening but you don’t. Your body language will show that and girls are very good at face reading also.
This is the most common mistake committed and girls have high power sensors to detect when you try to avoid them in any way. This can be when you pretend that you are listening but you don’t. Your body language will show that and girls are very good at face reading also.
2.
You are sarcastic and you think
you are mischievous. Girls like the mischief part but not the sarcasm. This
creeps in when you try to joke about her parents or her former boy friend.
3.
Either you take her too much
care or you just don’t take her any care.
a.
If you take her too much care
then she will think you are a sissy
b.
If you don’t take any care
she’ll think you are not emotional.
c.
Most of time it’s not the
amount of care you take but its just the situation arising and how strong or
weak is your reaction.
4.
You show that you are very
perfect and you never do any mistakes.
Of course girls are a perfect kind of species and they too like perfection but perfect people have fans and not girl friends. Also understand that for a perfect person love is just an exception and out of routine thing so of course you’ll be admired but your weekends will pass in front of TV and without any gfs. It is very normal to share your failures as well as success.
Of course girls are a perfect kind of species and they too like perfection but perfect people have fans and not girl friends. Also understand that for a perfect person love is just an exception and out of routine thing so of course you’ll be admired but your weekends will pass in front of TV and without any gfs. It is very normal to share your failures as well as success.
5.
Being Judgmental
As humans we become judgmental very fast which leads to strong feelings about any person. We are not to judge her choices. She is always right until of course it affects you adversely. Then of course you can always explain you stand instead of being judgmental.
As humans we become judgmental very fast which leads to strong feelings about any person. We are not to judge her choices. She is always right until of course it affects you adversely. Then of course you can always explain you stand instead of being judgmental.
6.
Taking her for granted
A big mistake when you don’t ask her opinion in the things concerning both of you. Taking her advice is surely intelligent way to avoid problems and be sure that she is a better problem solver than you as she is hard-wired to think rationally.
A big mistake when you don’t ask her opinion in the things concerning both of you. Taking her advice is surely intelligent way to avoid problems and be sure that she is a better problem solver than you as she is hard-wired to think rationally.
7.
Being too much angry or not
being angry at all.
a.
Being too much angry even on
right reasons is never a good option in any relation as we can’t think and we
do what we seldom should so.
b.
Opposite to it is we never
become angry on any thing. It shows that we are timid and ready to accept
insults and then how are we supposed to protect her self-esteem
So
guys these are the mistakes that can be avoided all together and it can lead to
happy and long-lasting relations.
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